TwinFlames

"4 Main Phases of Twinflames Relationship:

A Twinflame relationship is not all ‘perfect’, as one might expect, especially in the beginning. They have many obstacles, these may be age, geographic locations, beliefs, race, income brackets…

There are four main phases that usually resonate with all twinflames in some way.

Phase One – The Preparation 


This phase comes before you meet your twinflame. What happens in this phase:

*Karmic Relationships


There are one or few seriously devastating relationships. These begin with strong emotions and end painfully. These are called Karmic relationships.

*Emptiness and Strong desire for ‘The One’

After you’ve been through the Karmic relationships, you’ll have a very deep yearning or desire to find ‘The One’.

Phase Two – The Meeting 


This is the phase when you meet your twinflame for the first time (in this incarnation).
You might try to resist at this point but you will fall for him/her anyway.

What happens In this Phase:

*The first meeting 
you’ll meet your twinflame in unusual circumstances or at some unexpected place (a place where you would not expect meeting your life partner/soulmate)
.You’ll find this person somehow ‘special’ at this point. Even though you might not even think of them as a partner.

*The initial attraction 


You’ll soon find yourself being attracted to your twinflame. 
You might not be ready for a relationship (because of the karmic relationships that you’ve been through) and so you might try to resist this attraction. 
You’ll fall anyway. Deeply in love.

 After the initial attraction, you’ll find yourself in a deeply romantic relationship.
You’ll find all that you want in your partner and much more.
This is what the Twinflame relationship is actually supposed to be like. 
And this is what it becomes (if not better) after you get through the problems that surface in the next phase.



Phase three – The Dance – Resolving what is known as the Karma

In this phase, all the accumulated negativity and lower emotions come to surface.
This lets them achieve higher energy levels so that they can ascend in bliss together.
This is also the phase where both twinflames get spiritually enlightened.
This is when they search and find the spiritual reality. 
If you’re currently in a Twinflame relationship, you’re probably in this phase (as this is the period of time when you usually begin finding information on this).

What Happens in this Phase:

*Arguments/Fights


This phase brings many arguments and fights. 
This happens because the negativity that each partner is carrying within (usually at a subconscious level) comes to surface.
The twinflame will reflect this like a mirror and so you’ll think its in them, when in reality its in you.
This begins the deep cleansing process.

*The blame game


Each twinflame sees their own negativity and clutter in their twinflame. 
Also, deep seated fears and frustrations surface.
 So you think its happening because of the other and start blaming each other. 
You consciously might not realize it but this is clearing all your clutter which is a good thing.

*The Runner and the Chaser


The arguments and the blaming causes a lot of confusion (because usually the spiritual process is not understood by the conscious mind, as we are conditioned to trust logic more that feeling).

One twinflame, at this point, takes the role of the ‘Runner’ (which is usually the man)
. The Runner tries to avoid the partner and runaway from the relationship.
This happens because the runner doesn’t consciously know what is going on and feels like he’s losing control.

The other twinflame, now, becomes what I call the ‘Chaser’ (usually the woman)
.The Chaser is spiritually more aware than the Runner at some level and tries to ‘chase’ or ‘run after’ the runner. 
Chaser feel the need to understand what really is happening and so they start searching or reading about it.

This usually leads to the enlightenment of the Chaser.
 The Runner becomes spiritually enlightened too, either through the chaser’s conscious effort, or by receiving a ‘Soul Shock’ when the Chaser gives up and goes away from the Runner Twinflame.

The Phase gets stretched longer the more the Runner runs. 
Ultimately, the runner does return and the Karma is finally fully resolved.

Phase Four – The Reunion

This is the phase of the reunion. 
This is when the split soul becomes One again. 
This happens first at the level of the soul and then in the physical plane.
The reunion happens when both the partners are fully aware of the spiritual reality."

https://theeternalbliss.wordpress.com/2011/10/01/phases-of-a-twinflame-relationship/